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maxims2go:   If you have not got the patience,time,energy,money or even inclination, or all of these,to attend a seminar, take courses,have private sessions for bettering your life via a consultant or coach (although they can be great) then this is for you. It is so revolutionary in the sense that, it works!

Those maxims (sayings) I invented are for you to solve an unbalance you may have, be it with money, work, love, or relationships, and much more. It is a strong trampoline for you to make your life easier. There are not too many... Memorize them, apply them and see the results. It may take some time to use it as a reflex but, hey, it is free and is certainly a pillar of positive thinking that will,more than not, reverse your problem somehow.

It works, because,like plants,even if some are different one from another, like a rose and a fruit tree,they all so share  the same structure,roots,leaves, flowers.So it is with us: we all have needs and reflexes that we all share even if we are different: we have in common feelings,dreams and as well physical/mental/spiritual making.   These sayings do apply to all,because they use this concept.

Also,the "inspiringtakeaway4U" is for you to,like a take-out cuppa Joe,grab for  a pick you up holisitc energy filler which is on the Resources I page.

 Maxims2go that will make your day easier anytime!

* IF YOU HAVE MONEY WORRIES: Money is as a good of a tool as the user.

Money can be a good tool if used well. If not, it will, more likely than not, surely become a hindrance to you. Money is, as you know, great to use to sometimes to please people, yourself, even help others...but if you want just money for money, it is like a fire that can stop a fire. It then puts itself out. Why? Because you then, by only wanting this money, start to dehumanize yourself: you either try to get it without to really see the people it might affect negatively or/and it steals precious family time. It does not buy your way to success. If you use money to only gain money, your work and even lifestyle will result in extreme stress and you may make, directly or indirectly enemies. Money is only a way of achieving certain results but it is not the real fuel of life. Your frame of mind of using money by caring for others also is the only formula for an ethical self worth. In other words do not run after it, as if you do, it would do you much dangerous stress and even harm to your life. Money comes and goes, such is life. Millionaires? They so have bigger bills, that is all. By the way, many things that can improve your life are free or low cost: walks, parks, libraries for information, reading, borrowing music, shopping in thrift (charity) shops, garage sales, church events, libraries, community centers events etc...

* IF YOU ARE FEELING THE BLUES : Life is like a blanket; use it well to warm yourself up or,if not careful,it will surely smother you.

Count your blessings and be a great achiever: in some part of the country, accidents and tragedy do happen every day and families can be then broken at the time. Some people have not got even a roof upon their head and the list goes on. By realizing that, you can lead the way to better yourself and lend a hand to others whenever you can. This brings the true powerful you that you are meant to be. Also take some life moments: have a coffee in a museum's café, go to a park and stroll, if not,have a good laugh! Rent a movie or buy one used (services like amazon.com or amazon.co.uk sells them for "as new" or "very good" for quite cheaper).

* IF YOU HAVE SOME ANGER COMING UP:                                          Feelings are like a boomerang; it goes away far from you when you throw it but does comes back with tremendous momentum. So,throw positive and positive will come back 10 times fold!

Try to back of the situation. Go to a spot where you can cool off. Imagine the implications if you go for violence. Calm yourself down by thinking quickly of what and who is dear to you. Take a positive vibe on that then see if the situation can be solved with a calmer attitude by speaking to the people involved in a decent manner. One good way to bend anger is to learn an activity like Judo or Tae Kwon Do or Tai Chi to learn self discipline and humility.

 * IF YOU FEEL SOME STRESS INVADING YOUR MIND : 

All is two that then makes one for balance: work/sleep, day/night, in/out Inhale/Exhale. All is duality to make one thing work.

Too much work? Family going crazy at home? Take a break! Pause your job, if at home, make sure the kids are in a cool safe activity or watch TV for a moment, find a quiet place and breathe: 5 times, slowly inhale, exhale and move your arms sideways or in front of you, up and down ,from shoulder level to waist. Slowly. After that, focus on a good moment you did experience  as a memory. Once you have it, relax with it, and then come back to what you have to do. Sometimes, you just are too frustrated to even do that,then,just to go to a room,and scream into a pillow or a towel does release stress. I know,it sounds funky,but after that, you really feel better if you need that quick steam release!

* IF YOU SAY, I WANT TO BE THE BEST, RIGHT? 

No success? Do it again, you certainly have got the brain: that saying even rhymes! Failure is only if you do not do your best or do not try.

Anything else is true success as you cannot do better. To be the best in yourself is really what counts. Point. Besides,mathematically,if you always want to be the best,you cannot be number one every year for years and years. That does not really exist!

* IF YOU WONDER WHAT YOUR WORTH IS:                  Be remembered by many with affection or be a statistic, which one do you want?

Be a beacon of positive lifestyle for others and this world: it is NEVER too late to be better and share your wisdom: Be it a Community College course, training at a club or at home, learning another language, music, volunteering for a group or charity...YOU are worth it. Which mark do you want to leave in this world? Think!

* IF YOU SAY, I CAN DO IT ALL ON MY OWN, RIGHT? From making energy to the elements, even atoms do not work with a single particle, neither do you! Nothing is one without more.

In this sometimes hard and complicated life, with some circumstances and accidents, errors even mistakes, which can arise, we need guidance or/and help. By seeking it, we understand our limits, then, we gain more power to share our gained knowledge with people that needs it. That is richer than any gold to have. It takes courage to do that, and the only person in the way is you.

* IF YOU ASK WHAT CAN I DO TO LEAVE AN ECO LEGACY TO MY KIDS?  Earth is like a cake: use it all without replacing it and it will be gone. So re-use, recycle, and give back.

* IF YOU WONDER, HAVE I GOT TO BE ALWAYS ON THE GO?                                 Even super heroes are not on 24/7: they know when to put the costume on the hanger.

Smile and surf the day: it relaxes you, breaks the ice on any communication you want to succeed in, and the day shall be far easier than not.

By smiling, you do certainly acknowledge that you want to positively take control of your day. Besides,computers,TV's,music players have got a switch on and off. So it is for us as we can stop for a while. If the machines do take a break so we must.as we do more things than them,variety wise and we have to deal with feelings too,what a ride!

* IF YOU ASK WHY DOES IT TAKE SO LONG?   

Everything takes time, even instant coffee: nothing comes right now!

And the higher the goal, the longer it takes. Be patient and it shall reward you big time. Sure,there are days when we think: why is it so tough? Well, like a meal you wish to eat,it is the same thing. Do you want the microwave kid's dinner or the cool "a la carte " amazing main course? the latter takes time.So for your goal,it will take time if it has quality in the making...

* IF YOU ALWAYS SAY,I WANT PERFECTION!

Nothing is perfect; trying your best is true perfection: nothing in life is perfect.

Besides, just by cosmic mathematics alone (so by probability of happening) you will, more than not, make mistakes, errors and have accidents. What does really count?   To do the least of them, and to repair them as well as trying to avoid not to do it again. That is the only "perfection" you can attain.

* IF YOU SAY,ANOTHER DAY, ANOTHER DOLLAR:

Gloom equals doom. Smile,it will bring you some peace in your day and it is free.

Tune your day: listen to some music that makes you happy.

Be it a song, or music itself, that uplift your spirit, will really give you a boost of energy and a smile for the day. Do not let depression come in. You are more than that. Try it. What have you got to lose?

* IF YOU SAY,I CAN DO IT ALL!                                         Everything has got limits,so have you: your stomach, a glass of water, a road, the capacity of a fridge etc... Learn them,accept them and by doing so, you can rule out disappointments.

By knowing your limits, you can, via philosophy even some good spirituality and mental/physical training, extend them to a higher level! It takes time,efforts and sacrifices. Nothing is ever for free,even the air we breathe (we need trees right?)